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When the Ego Tries to Hold the Tide
Choosing Awareness Over Control The identity kneels at the edge of the ocean, hammer in hand, attempting to nail something steady into the shifting shoreline. This is the ego at work. It’s not evil, not wrong, just instinctive. The ego is designed to create structure, meaning, and safety. It wants permanence where there is none. In the spiritual awakening process, the ego becomes the part of us desperately trying to hold together the identities and stories we’ve built, even

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Dec 7, 2025


Safe From Within: Remembering the Code That Cannot Break
Your safety is not rehearsed. It is remembered.

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Nov 30, 2025


The Journey of Forgiveness and Compassion
Understanding the Silent Struggles Many of us have experienced moments when our pain was dismissed or overlooked. Perhaps it was a family member who failed to recognize our struggles, or friends who were too caught up in their own lives to offer support. This lack of acknowledgment can lead to feelings of isolation and resentment. It makes it difficult to forgive not only others but also ourselves for the hurt we’ve endured. As we begin to own our space, we may find ourselves

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Aug 3, 2025


The Energy of Relationships: Choosing Intimacy From Wholeness
There are those of us who walk through life knowing, without doubt, that we see the world differently. We are the outliers. Not because...

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Jul 23, 2025


Embracing the Current: The Power of Mindfulness in Suffering
Witnessing Your Inner Flow There is a quiet power in pausing, in simply witnessing the world as it is. Like the river that flows steadily...

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May 11, 2025


The Unchanging Soul & The Evolving Self: How to Flow with Life’s Sacred Changes
You are both the stillness and the storm. The eternal soul and the evolving self. Consciousness, in its purest form, is spirit:...

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May 1, 2025


Research on Reiki Energy Healing
Research on Reiki Reiki is a form of alternative therapy that originated in Japan and involves the transfer of energy through the...

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Jan 7, 2024


How to Let Go of Financial Anxiety
Research has shown that our habits (mental, emotional, psychological, behavioural and spiritual) determine the degree of financial...

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Dec 28, 2023


What is Spiritual Bypassing
The dangers of spiritual bypassing What is Spiritual Bypassing ? This term is often used to describe the tendency to sidestep deeper raw...

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Aug 16, 2023


Belonging is an inside job
Where do you think you belong? We often use the word Belonging to describe a relationship with a group, culture etc. The Cambridge...

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Jul 21, 2023


Getting out of Survival Mode
How do we feel soft when the going gets rough and tough? It can be hard to be grateful when we did not get something we wanted. It can be...

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Jun 26, 2023


When Enough is Enough
What happens when enough is enough? We all know times when we feel enough is enough. Times we say we have had enough of something and we...

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Jun 22, 2023


Sovereignty & Compulsion
I have recently been focusing on Sovereignty. Why it is important to own it in our day to day. Sovereignty is the power we have as...

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Jun 12, 2023


Making Sacrifices in Relationships
How did the word "sacrifice" in relationships get a such bad rap? The ancestral Greek meaning of sacrifice is to kill, slaughter. It is...

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May 31, 2023


Spiritual Practice of Self Acceptance
We have all heard the saying that goes "success requires us to get out of our own way". In other words, not letting our egoic self...

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May 31, 2023


Aligning to Abundance
Embodying deeper into the energy of abundance in all its forms. Abundance is our true nature and there are many forms, physical...

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May 9, 2023


Safe Enough to Succeed
Success in our next level requires us to feel safe enough to be seen and recognised, in higher levels of visibility. We may be successful...

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May 7, 2023


Sovereign Surrender
How do we stay in our sovereign state of being and surrender to being guided intuitively. We are sovereign beings, each of us a unique...

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Apr 30, 2023


Managing your Boundaries
Honouring your true intentions This article is specifically about personal boundaries. As we understand and know self more, we will set...

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Jan 2, 2023


Types of Relationship Abuse
Recognising Abuse and Self Awareness How we react to abuse in our relationships (otherwise known as domestic violence) helps us transmute...

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Dec 4, 2022
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