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Self Awareness and Pure Awareness
Self awareness is the conscious recognition of aspects of our physical ego mind, i.e. the identities, thoughts, beliefs, definitions,...

Bola Abimbola
Jun 12, 20224 min read


Passions, Distractions & Pure Awareness
The practice of integration There are passions and distractions that are heightened emotional states of our physical mind body. These...

Bola Abimbola
Jun 12, 20223 min read


Emotional Resilience in True State of Being
Emotional resilience as the bridge between our emotions, mind and true state of being. According to traditional Psychology, our 8 basic...

Bola Abimbola
Jun 1, 20223 min read


Separation from True Essence - The Transmutation of the Core Trauma
I realized over the years that trauma is very real in the mind and body. The triggers seem never ending. The narrative in the mind is...

Bola Abimbola
May 28, 20222 min read


The Path to Blissful Aspirations
Clarifying what bliss means for you. As we focus on achieving higher success, higher levels in our dreams, a time comes that we want to...

Bola Abimbola
Dec 15, 20213 min read


Addiction: Recovery goals
Addiction is the engagement with any substance, activity or experience to the extent that it causes harm to self or others. Addiction is...

Bola Abimbola
Nov 28, 20214 min read


What are 3 Steps to Intimacy?
How do we experience intimacy? Experiencing intimacy starts with being clear about what intimacy means to us. Intimacy occurs in personal...

Bola Abimbola
Aug 8, 20213 min read


The Science behind Positive Affirmations
What are Positive Affirmations? Positive affirmations are empowering statements, mantras, definitions, phrases that can be used to change...

Bola Abimbola
Apr 4, 20214 min read


Overcoming Social Anxiety
It is natural for some anxiety to emerge at transitions, life changes etc Also in social gatherings that we are unfamiliar with. We can...

Bola Abimbola
Dec 30, 20206 min read


What does Authenticity mean?
Authenticity is a process of staying connected with your own self and being the author of your life. So what does this really mean and...

Bola Abimbola
Aug 14, 20205 min read


Transformation in 3 Steps
3 Steps to recover and move on from a crisis, from significant change, from trauma. “Transformation in 3 steps” Unexpected events can be...

Bola Abimbola
Apr 10, 20202 min read


4 Steps in Change
Change is one thing that is constant in our existence. We change, our loved ones change and our environment changes all the time due to...

Bola Abimbola
Apr 5, 20205 min read


Overcome Self Pity in 4 Steps
Moving beyond Self Pity. Self Pity is a low psychological state caused by focusing intently on the toxic past or present and seeking...

Bola Abimbola
Feb 3, 20203 min read


Having a new reality
Our environment is our reality. It is changing all the time and we are shifting through different realities all the time. Yes we are...

Bola Abimbola
Dec 13, 20194 min read


Healing Through Layers
How we heal through layers Healing occurs in stages namely A) Recovery B) Transformation C) Reconnection/Integration. The healing journey...

Bola Abimbola
Dec 1, 20194 min read


Strong people can need help too.
It is ok to need a helping hand. It is ok to be whole, complete, happy on your own or with your beloved and appreciate help and even...

Bola Abimbola
Nov 27, 20193 min read


Your Energy Body
Our totality of being consists of the body, 3 layers in the physical, the spiritual/astral layer and 3 more layer aspects beyond. These ...

Bola Abimbola
Nov 15, 20194 min read


Alone and not Lonely
How to embody being alone dropping being lonely. Being alone, on your own, whether by choice or unexpected is different from being...

Bola Abimbola
Nov 4, 20193 min read


Too Unique to Compare
The reason why we sometimes compare ourselves with others is because a winner, according to the education and social systems, must...

Bola Abimbola
Oct 17, 20193 min read


How to forgive and let go
Deeper exploration, processing and letting go. Sometimes we struggle to forgive and totally let go of toxic memories because we believe...

Bola Abimbola
Sep 11, 20198 min read
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