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Safe Enough to Succeed
Success in our next level requires us to feel safe enough to be seen and recognised, in higher levels of visibility. We may be successful...

Bola Abimbola
May 8, 2023


Sovereign Surrender
How do we stay in our sovereign state of being and surrender to being guided intuitively. We are sovereign beings, each of us a unique...

Bola Abimbola
Apr 30, 2023


Managing your Boundaries
Honouring your true intentions This article is specifically about personal boundaries. As we understand and know self more, we will set...

Bola Abimbola
Jan 2, 2023


Types of Relationship Abuse
Recognising Abuse and Self Awareness How we react to abuse in our relationships (otherwise known as domestic violence) helps us transmute...

Bola Abimbola
Dec 4, 2022


Softening Resistance to Suffering
Suffering has two common definitions I find. One definition is the actual painful experience we have such as loss, injury, ill health etc...

Bola Abimbola
Jul 29, 2022


Beyond Agitation into Peace
In the midst of agitation in the moment, how do you reconnect to ease in that moment wherever you are? How do you face a challenging...

Bola Abimbola
Jul 1, 2022


Self Awareness and Pure Awareness
Self awareness is the conscious recognition of aspects of our physical ego mind, i.e. the identities, thoughts, beliefs, definitions,...

Bola Abimbola
Jun 12, 2022


Passions, Distractions & Pure Awareness
The practice of integration There are passions and distractions that are heightened emotional states of our physical mind body. These...

Bola Abimbola
Jun 12, 2022


Emotional Resilience in True State of Being
Emotional resilience as the bridge between our emotions, mind and true state of being. According to traditional Psychology, our 8 basic...

Bola Abimbola
Jun 1, 2022


Separation from True Essence - The Transmutation of the Core Trauma
I realized over the years that trauma is very real in the mind and body. The triggers seem never ending. The narrative in the mind is...

Bola Abimbola
May 28, 2022


The Path to Blissful Aspirations
Clarifying what bliss means for you. As we focus on achieving higher success, higher levels in our dreams, a time comes that we want to...

Bola Abimbola
Dec 15, 2021


Addiction: Recovery goals
Addiction is the engagement with any substance, activity or experience to the extent that it causes harm to self or others. Addiction is...

Bola Abimbola
Nov 28, 2021


What are 3 Steps to Intimacy?
How do we experience intimacy? Experiencing intimacy starts with being clear about what intimacy means to us. Intimacy occurs in personal...

Bola Abimbola
Aug 8, 2021


The Science behind Positive Affirmations
What are Positive Affirmations? Positive affirmations are empowering statements, mantras, definitions, phrases that can be used to change...

Bola Abimbola
Apr 4, 2021


Overcoming Social Anxiety
It is natural for some anxiety to emerge at transitions, life changes etc Also in social gatherings that we are unfamiliar with. We can...

Bola Abimbola
Dec 30, 2020


What does Authenticity mean?
Authenticity is a process of staying connected with your own self and being the author of your life. So what does this really mean and...

Bola Abimbola
Aug 14, 2020


Transformation in 3 Steps
3 Steps to recover and move on from a crisis, from significant change, from trauma. “Transformation in 3 steps” Unexpected events can be...

Bola Abimbola
Apr 10, 2020


4 Steps in Change
Change is one thing that is constant in our existence. We change, our loved ones change and our environment changes all the time due to...

Bola Abimbola
Apr 5, 2020


Overcome Self Pity in 4 Steps
Moving beyond Self Pity. Self Pity is a low psychological state caused by focusing intently on the toxic past or present and seeking...

Bola Abimbola
Feb 3, 2020


Having a new reality
Our environment is our reality. It is changing all the time and we are shifting through different realities all the time. Yes we are...

Bola Abimbola
Dec 13, 2019
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