
When the Ego Tries to Hold the Tide
- Bola Abimbola

- 7 days ago
- 2 min read
Choosing Awareness Over Control
The identity kneels at the edge of the ocean, hammer in hand, attempting to nail something steady into the shifting shoreline.
This is the ego at work.
It’s not evil, not wrong, just instinctive. The ego is designed to create structure, meaning, and safety. It wants permanence where there is none.
In the spiritual awakening process, the ego becomes the part of us desperately trying to hold together the identities and stories we’ve built, even as the tide of soul truth washes them away.
You may be doing this now. Trying to nail down a role, a relationship, a belief, a plan.
You might feel tension between what your mind is trying to secure and what your soul is asking you to surrender.
But awakening is not about fixing everything in place. It’s about learning to witness the waves without losing yourself.
The question isn’t: “How do I stop this tide?”
It’s: “What am I aligning with while the tide moves?”
In our post-awakening Quantum Reiki Soul work, we bring light to this very pattern. You don’t need to silence the ego. You need to see it, lovingly. Witness the urge to control and then choose something deeper.
Focus. Breathe. Ask: What am I trying to stop that is actually meant to move me forward? The Quantum Reiki Soul Psy Awakening Program supports this process to a deeper knowing of infinite state of beingness in the day to day.
Our Free Energy Advantage Quiz offers insight into what you’re ready to release, and what your soul is finally ready to master.
Let the tide come.
And let yourself rise with it.
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Bola Abimbola is an Akashic Record Practitioner, Speaker, Author, Teacher, and Energy Coach for High Performers, Host of the Daily Soul Bytes Show
If you are interested in experiencing clarity in your definitions, connecting from wholeness, and want to work with her as your coach, check out her work based on Psychology, Metaphysics, Trauma-Informed Quantum Energy Healing, and Light Language Channeling.
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