The Unchanging Soul & The Evolving Self: How to Flow with Life’s Sacred Changes
- Bola Abimbola
- May 1
- 3 min read
Updated: Jul 25
You are both the stillness and the storm.
The eternal soul and the evolving self.
Consciousness, in its purest form, is spirit: unchanging, infinite, whole.
But here in physical form, consciousness expresses itself through change. Through seasons. Through reinvention. Through the sacred process of becoming.
This is the human journey: Your soul is unchanging. Your self is always becoming.
Embracing Your Evolving Self: Five Strategies for Transformation
So how do we live in flow with that truth? I propose five strategies below, which I support you through in my 8-week Quantum-Reiki Renewal Program with Intuitive Guidance.
1. Honour the Old Version Before Letting Her Go
Before transformation, there must be reverence. You cannot become the new without fully releasing the old.
Write a letter to the woman you once were. Thank her. Grieve her. Release her. Speak this into the universe: "Thank you for all you held. I now release you to become who I’m meant to be." This act of acknowledgment is crucial. It allows you to honor your past while making space for new beginnings.
2. Let Energy Be Your Guide
Change isn't just mental—it’s energetic.
As you evolve—whether from single status to married/partnered, or from no children to being a parent—you are not the same version of yourself. Your nervous system rewires as the change occurs. Allow this rewiring.
Embrace your energy activation. Practice grounding, meditate, and move. Let your body process the upgrade. By tuning into your energy, you can align more closely with your growth.
3. Reframe Your Identity
You are not just your job title, marriage, or past. You are a soul expressing itself through many seasons of form.
Instead of asking, “How do I get back to who I was?” ask: “Who am I becoming now?” This shift in mindset opens up possibilities. It allows you to see yourself through a lens of growth and potential.
4. Embrace the Unknown
Transitions bring uncertainty, but they also bring power.
That liminal space, where the old self has dissolved and the new self hasn’t fully landed? That’s where magic happens. Your creativity thrives in this space. So does your intuition. Stay present in it. Allow yourself to explore what this unknown can offer.
5. Create Rituals for Every Transition
Rituals create stability inside the unknown.
Starting a new business? Light a candle for your vision each morning.
Navigating single life? Clear your space and fill it with symbols of freedom.
Entering menopause? Host a ritual to honor your wisdom and initiation into deeper power.
Rituals serve as a grounding force during times of change. They help you to acknowledge transitions and set intentions for the future.
The Continuous Journey of Becoming
You are allowed to change throughout your life. You are meant to. The spirit within you is eternal, always seeking experience so that your self, your life is always expanding.
You can let the old version go. Let the new one rise. Remember: Every next level of your life will demand a different version of you. And that version is ready.
This is a sacred invitation to pause, realign, and rise into the next version of you—the one who leads with clarity, rests without guilt, creates with purpose, and lives from the soul.
You are not broken. You are becoming.
Let’s honor that. Let’s activate what’s next.
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The Role of Community and Support
Transitioning can feel overwhelming, but remember that you are not alone. Surround yourself with supportive individuals who uplift you.
Seek mentors or friends who inspire you. Share your journey with them. This can create a sense of community that fosters growth and healing.
Next Steps
I am a Speaker, Coach, Author, Teacher, and Energy Practitioner. If you are interested in experiencing a change in your outlook, outcomes, or experiences, and want to work with me as your coach, check out my work based on Psychology, Metaphysics, and Trauma-Informed Quantum Energy Healing and Light Language Channeling.
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