The Unchanging Soul & The Evolving Self: How to Flow with Life’s Sacred Changes
- Bola Abimbola
- May 1
- 2 min read
Updated: May 2
You are both the stillness and the storm.
The eternal soul and the evolving self.
Consciousness, in its purest form, is spirit: unchanging, infinite, whole.
But here in physical form, consciousness expresses itself through change. Through seasons. Through reinvention. Through the sacred process of becoming.
This is the human journey: Your soul is unchanging. Your self is always becoming.
So how do we live in flow with that truth?
I propose five strategies below which is what I support you through on my 8 weeks Quantum-Reiki Renewal Program with Intuitive Guidance.
1. Honour the Old Version Before Letting Her Go
Before transformation, there must be reverence. You cannot become the new without fully releasing the old.
Write a letter to the woman you once were.
Thank her. Grieve her. Release her. Speak this into the universe:"Thank you for all you held. I now release you to become who I’m meant to be."
2. Let Energy Be Your Guide
Change isn't just mental- it’s energetic.
As you evolve from corporate to entrepreneur, from wife to sovereign woman, from mother to mystic - your nervous system rewires.
This is sacred energy activation.
Practice grounding. Meditate. Move. Let your body process the upgrade.
3. Reframe Your Identity
You are not just your job title, your marriage, your past. You are a soul expressing through many seasons of form.
Instead of asking, “How do I get back to who I was?”Ask:“Who am I becoming now?”
4. Embrace the Unknown
Transitions bring uncertainty - but also power.
That liminal space, where the old self has dissolved and the new self hasn’t fully landed?
That’s where magic happens. Your creativity lives there. So does your intuition. Stay present in it.
5. Create Rituals for Every Transition
Ritual creates stability inside the unknown.
Starting a new business? Light a candle for your vision each morning.
Navigating single life? Clear your space and fill it with symbols of freedom.
Entering menopause? Host a ritual to honor your wisdom and initiation into a deeper power.
You are allowed to change. You are meant to. The spirit within you is eternal - but your self is always expanding.
So let the old version go. Let the new one rise.
And remember:Every next level of your life will demand a different version of you.And that version is ready.
A sacred invitation to pause, realign, and rise into the next version of you - the one who leads with clarity, rests without guilt, creates with purpose, and lives from soul.
You’re not broken. You’re becoming.
Let’s honor that. Let’s activate what’s next.
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